If your happiness = you + your bf/gf/wife/husband + your parents + your boss + your country + your race + your religion + ( so-much-other-stuff-real-non-real-stuff)
You don’t need a math genius to tell you that you are going to have really hard time find a “right” solution to this equation.
In short, you may never be happy.
Moral of the story : Less variables , less dependency is better. Get rid of irrelevant entities. Life is too short to handle this kind of mess & at the same time be happy.